"[Women are beautifully designed to give themselves completely - emotionally and physically to one man. And there is a deep need inside of them to be loved and cherished for a lifetime by the man to whom they give that gift. "Physical purity can not be separated from their emotions. It's a package deal." When women give themselves to a man emotionally, it leads to the next step... giving themsleves to him physically.]"
My greatest desire is to verbally scold the subject of purity into words that will fully communicate the intensity my heart has towards it.
There is a period of time when a relationship increases severely in passion and sincerity both physically and emotionally. As soon as it is turned on, it is near impossible to self control your complete surrender to it. This desire was created in females since the beginning. It is such a beautiful gift that can easily become the greatest burden a women will ever bear. My heart breaks into pieces for girls that give love so easily to good potential. Some of the most promising relationships turn out to be a flash in the pan in the drop of a hat. The sincerity is the thing that tricks you the most. Nothing, not one thing that this world has to offer will ever make you feel as good as love makes you feel. In the same way, Nothing, not one thing that this world has to offer, will ever make you feel as hopeless that a lost love can make you feel.
In saying this,
I believe that when a women truly loves a man, a time arises when she has to evaluate if God is her first and most faithful love and hope. I hope to clearly communicate, without misunderstanding, that the role a man plays in a women's life is extremely intimate and irreplaceable. The beauty of it all is that a love that deep will never last in love that is not rooted in the very heart of God. When a women feels like it's a toss up between God's love and the love she has for a man, the most undesirable things are nearer than her mind could take her. Yet, when she knows the love of Christ first and she knows her role in him, love to its fullest blossoms.
“God cannot honor anything, no matter its degree of sincerity, if it is contrary to His Word.” (Leslie Ludy)
There is no sin or shame God does not have power over. God restores past mistakes to the fullest if we ask him. It is in this process of resoration where love that failed is overtaken by God's all powerfull love and grace. God sees every tear, he sees your very heart. He will restore you and give you your first love back.
So to my future husband,
Faithfully, I am yours
From now until forever
Faithfully, I will write
Write you a love song with my life
Cause this kind of loves worth waiting for
No matter how long it takes I am yours
Faithfully
(Eric and Leslie Ludy)
And I will look for the man that has God written on his heart.
"As I told her when we wed, I'd surely rather be found dead, than to love her more than the one who saved my soul." -Keith Green
